Renew Love in Your Life With 3 Simple Flips of a Switch

How often do you look in the mirror, muttering in disgust: “Why doesn’t love ever last for me?” or, “What am I doing wrong?”

If you do, welcome to the human condition.

We spend our entire lives wandering around trying to get it together when we don’t even know what "it" is. It’s as though we have fallen asleep on our real selves.

This lapse in memory grows with each limited perception of life until we begin to actually believe that we are flawed, inadequate, and defective. Then, we make sure that our self-assessment is correct by ensuring we never find the right partner just to keep our minds from totally losing all objectivity.

I believe that our consciousness does us wrong by separating us from our spirit and keeping us as captives to our ego. We soon begin to think of love and life in terms of self-protection, struggles, and as something that must be fought for.

The effects of this irrational rationalization of the ego are varied. Some individuals eventually give up on love and close their emotions off. Others settle, letting the embers grow cold, living life on autopilot between bitter jabs and solitary nights with a significant other that they can barely tolerate. Then there are those who have convinced themselves that they are always right and keep piling up lover after lover, as though their success in relationships is measured by quantity rather than quality.

This short piece is in no way a complete course on the divinity within yourself, but these three simple practices will help boost the love in your life, increase your energy, and lighten your aura so that you might finally understand that the underlying problem is not you. It is your view of yourself and others that is wrong. You are perfect and your life is perfect. This knowledge flips the switch and opens the flood gates, putting a skip in your step and a smile on your face. It is then that opportunities to renew love arrive in response to your inward energy as you expand, heal, and attract others in that same frequency.

Here Are the Three Simple Practices to Begin the Transformation to Find and Renew Love in Your Life:

First Switch to Flip: Recognition of the Real Self

You are composed of energy that never dies. You are a soul visiting earth to learn lessons and raise your vibrations via lessons and karma. Your soul is composed of splendid creation, and it is that lightness and creativity that is you.

You are pure joy.

It’s easy to get really irritable and downright nasty towards those who are first nasty towards you. When someone makes you feel less than or it feels that they want to do you harm, it is time to flip it. When you react or act meanly from your fight or flight reaction, or from personal feelings of shame or times of sorrow, it’s time to remember that you are complete.

The body is there as your friend. Breath is life.

Breathe in and out and repeat:

“This is not me.”

Key: There are no mistakes in your life. The problem is not you—it is your perception of yourself.

Perks: Self love is the connection to the source that eliminates guilt and anger. Regret disappears as we see all is as it is in order.

Second Switch to Flip: Acceptance of Others

We each come with our own issues. No one is free from some sort of trauma, drama, and loss. But, when we realize that absolutely everything comes to us for our expansion and growth, we will begin to see others differently. Resentment, anger, and guilt will no longer grow within when you see that we are not separate from others and that others are also suffering. Just like you, they are lost in consciousness and have forgotten their identity during the journey. Synchronicity is so powerful. Souls arrive as if on cue to help one another learn.

When someone has offended you, rejected you, and passed over you, silently recognize they are lost in their false self:

The body is there as your friend. Breath is life.

Breathe in and out and repeat:

“This is really not you.”

Key: The act of seeing someone’s purity ripples through the universe, healing yourself and others while changing the composition of your being.

Perks: The quality of your relationships improve. Those who aren't meant to be with you will move away as those more suited to your soul’s longing will start to arrive.

Third Switch to Flip: Living Large

Let’s get real. Daily life is a grind and we often forget our inner knowing, and so our ego jumps at the chance to take over. Your newly expanded sense of self will need constant reinforcement to counteract the mind’s ego as it tries to keep you afraid of opening your heart.

In order to stay in light and openness where your magnificent, creative energy abides, this practice will help you connect to your inner knowing and give others space to grow and feel this through your vibrations.

The body is there as your friend. Breath is life. Breathe in and out and silently greet each living thing you see, saying:

“Hello soul, great to see you.”

Key: You are a creator. "Creator" is not a noun. You need to go out there and do this job for the sake of love.

Perks: The more you give, the more you receive.

This is the path to a life filled with love. Understand that you are a soul and that spiritual growth is your primary purpose with the help of all who enter and exit, as predetermined by both yourself and them.

Love always,